Specialists in Issues of Emotion,
Attachment & Trauma
1-877-879-CALO (2256)
• Lack of Trust
o Little or no vulnerability
o Resistant to care-giving
o Lack of humility
o Suspicious of others
o Manipulative
o Controlling
o Teen may be victim of abuse or trauma
o Teen may have been abandoned, had inconsistent care-giving or unstable living environment
• Oppositional
o Disrespectful towards adults
o Disregarding of rules and guidelines
o Contentious
o Little or no compliance
• Angry
o Quick tempered
o Argumentative
o Easily frustrated
o Hostile
o Verbally aggressive
o Sudden outbursts
o Rage
o Teen is perceived as “irritable” or having a “short fuse”
• Low Motivation
o Poor completion of tasks and expectations
o Difficult to inspire towards goals or accomplishments
o Avoidant of personal responsibility
o Appears lazy
o Poor commitment
o Lack of follow through
o Apathetic
• Self-Harm
o History of having suicidal thoughts (no active plans)
o History of self-harming behaviors
o Extreme dangerous or high-risk behaviors (high speed racing, stunts, etc.)
o Simple harm (e.g. scratching)
• Academic Struggles
o Difficulty taking school seriously
o Avoidant of homework/school work
o Difficulty paying attention in class
o Truancy
o Poor grades
o Lack of follow through with assignments and projects
o Teacher conflict
• Lying, Stealing
o Lack of conscience
o Dishonest
o Taking things that are not his/hers
o Hoarding
o Frequent lying
o Deceitful
• Unsuccessful relationships
o Relationships characterized by manipulation
o Selfishness
o Sabotage
o Keeping others at a distance
o Victimizing
o Blaming others
o Poor empathy
o Superficial (lack of depth/substance)
• ADHD
o Attention Deficit/Hyper-activity Disorder
o Lack of focus
o Poor attention to detail
o Easily forgetful
o Frequent misplacing/losing of things
o Poor impulse control
o Struggles with task completion
o Poor memory
• Selfishness
o Lack of empathy in relationships with others
o Grandiose or inflated ego
o Concrete thinking
o Lack of flexibility
o False/distorted sense of self
o Struggles with being a “team” player
• Adoption Issues
o Questions or concerns regarding self
o Identity
o Family of origin
o Feelings of abandonment
o Feels “different” or “disconnected” from family
o Teen may display attachment disorder symptoms(poor interpersonal relationships, lack of trust, and
many other symptoms listed)
• Low Self-Worth
o Struggles with identity
o Filled with shame
o Can’t find “fit” or “place” in the world
o Impressionable, easily influenced
o Shifting value system
o Low self-awareness
o “Chameleon”
o Externally driven
• Depression
o Deflated mood
o Flat affect
o Poor hygiene
o Negative self-image
o Irritable
o Inconsistent moods
o Lack of interest in activities
• Anxiety
o Nervous
o Avoidant of social situations
o Isolating behavior
o Fearful of new situations
o Resistant to change
o Difficulty with transitions
• Negative Peers
o Impressionable
o Persuaded by peers
o Gravitation and identification with the dark side of life
o Withdraws or avoids positive social opportunities
o Increased disrespect
o “Parrots” (mimics) behavior of friends
• Impulsivity
o Reactive
o Spontaneous
o Poor “cause and effect” thinking
• Gender Identity Issues
o Questions/concerns surrounding sexuality
o Questions/concerns surrounding personal gender
o Social anxiety is prevalent
o Teen may have sexual trauma or abuse in personal history
• Sexual Promiscuity
o Experimentation with or exploring sexuality
o Indiscriminate touch with strangers
o Histories or struggles with pornography, chat room, or inappropriate web sites
o Masturbation issues
o Teen may have sexual trauma or abuse in personal history
• Substance Abuse Issues
o Experimentation with substances
o Mild-moderate use
o Used to cope with core issue and associated feelings (e.g. trauma)
o Not addicted to substances
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